This past Tuesday I was lucky enough to get to spend the day with the Zeka family and participate in their Bajram festivities. When my partner Malinda and I arrived we were immediately greeted with open arms and given a tour of their beautiful home. Once their father and a few family members arrived back home, we all sat together on their outdoor patio and shared some delicious baked goodies ranging from baklava to a fancy three layered cake. We sat and chatted for some time learning more about the Muslim religion, and finding out more about their family.
Once their mother began making lunch, we followed the children and their father into their garden to pick fresh herbs and vegetables for the meal. I was amazed at the variety of greens that they had (they had mint, chives, tomato’s, arugula, and everything in between) in such a small space. The feast they prepared for lunch reminded me of a Thanksgiving dinner. The amount of delicious food they had made was incredible and ranged from meat pies and rice with chicken and roasted tomato’s, to noodle soup and mixed vegetables. After dinner we were given even more baklava before departing to a family members house. We were informed that typically only the men do this, but we were invited to come and document this as well. Once we reached the relatives home they too provided some goodies for us (more delicious baklava!) and took a tour of their garden as well before heading back home
The entire day was a great experience. I myself am not a religious person, so I am always extremely interested in hearing about other people’s beliefs and customs. I feel that participating in this holiday brought me closer with Pristina itself because since coming here I haven’t got a chance to really immerse myself in their traditions. It was so nice to have strangers be so warm and welcoming, offering their home and food to us. I will never forget this day.
