“Soulmates”

I love to meet new people young or old, strangers or from around here. I enjoy in communication mostly communication with older people. A lot of older people that i’ve met were a level behind me in education, levels more in front of me in knowledge. Being smart isn’t what school you’ve finished, or what grades you have. Being smart means how good you know the world and how good you know human kind. understanding meaning of life and purpose of your existence. That’s something school will never give you, that’s something what life is teaching you.

A few days ago I met an old men and we talked for a while. He told me how was life before, how he was a crazy kid doing some crazy stuff. It was a funny conversation and then he started talking about his love of his life. What I find interesting and kind of funny, is when I listen to older people talking about how they’ve met their “soulmate”. I personally don’t believe in soulmates .But, if I did, how can your soulmate be someone your mother or father chose. That cannot be a soulmate, but what if they are. Divorces at that time were super rare on this places. It was a shame to get a divorce, but would you torture yourself being with someone you don’t love for that long , because it was a shame to be divorced. I wouldn’t, but how did they manage to be that long in a relationship when you met your wife/husband at the wedding. Where those really their soulmates or they were just destined to end up together???